Everyone, I'm also ashamed to admit that I've forgotten to introduce you to your new comod. So, Dechtine and I would like to congratulate and welcome beingloud. Thanks for helping us with this community!
I have an embarassing question-i would have made my own entry but goddamn livejournal wont let me log in and join this community. my question really needs to be asked and im sorry to bombard your comments with another question but maybe you could help me... first of all, this is embarassing and i have no idea how this happened but last night me and my boyfriend were going to have sex the first time, were both virgins too. The problem was he couldnt get his penis inside me. His penis kept slipping everytime he was about to go inside me. at one point i think we had it but i said ow and he moved because he thought he hurt me. for the rest of the night he was so embarrassed and upset with himself as if it was his fault but i honestly think its mine because i might be too tight down there. Ive never used a tampon but he has fingered me so i guess were aware on where things have to be but hes penis just slid away. maybe he wasnt hard enough? and heres the other embarassing part our comdom was supposed to be lubricated but he thinks he put the lubricated side on him-but can you even put a comdom on inside out? i dont think so but i didnt tell him that. and if he keeps slipping wouldnt lubricant make it worse...but hey it could make it better too right? this is pathetic i know, and i doubt anyone has had problems like this before, i mean come on, its just supposed to go in. im sure we'll look back on this and laugh but i want to be looking back and laughing as soon as possible. so PLEASEEEE at least one person help me-what the hell are we doing wrong? i mean the basic jist of this stupid question is how do you have sex, but i wont go there. PLEASEEEEEEE HELP ME!